Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Romance Relationship

After the first mathematics T period, we went to the chemistry new laboratory together with the other two classes.
We were there to attend a talk -- Managing Romance Relationship
The talk was given in English by a counsellor (or consultant? ah.. forgot already..) from Taylor college, her name is Sharon Wang.
All of the upper six students were listening to the talk until the recess.
Before she started the talk, she asked us that who among us was in a romance relationship, then, we saw Khoo was raising his hand! haha... He's so honest!
This talk was mainly about Love, she gave us the definition of love... explain all about it. Well, she kept repeating that Love and Sex are two different things..
So, there are many types of Love without sex, such as the love of parents for children, the love between siblings, the love between best friends, the love between two people of the same gender, or even the love we have for our pets~
Besides, she stressed about the importance of Communication between human to maintain a relationship.
She did mention that when guys are having arguments with someone, they tend to cool down and be alone; while gals tend to pour out everything to their friends or just to find someone to chat...
for my case, I'm like what she said! ooo... but this is not true to apply on Hoon..

Overall, the talk was quite ok, not too boring but not very very fun ..

Before the talk ended, there was a Q & A session. Some of my classmates asked some questions such as 'how to reject someone...', 'how to forget someone..', 'how to impress someone..', 'how to know if someone has feeling towards you..'

for the question, "how to forget someone..", she said, guys and gals do the different thing.
If it's a guy the one who meets the failure after confessing his feeling to a girl, mostly he would forget about her and doesn't contact with her anymore!
(it's because the self of sense of a guy is to achieve a good result in everything, once he meets a failure, he would feel like he's a loser and won't continue to do something that brings no result)
If it's a gal the one who meets the failure after confessing her feeling to a guy, mostly she would keep in contact with him, and keep the friendship ~
(while the self of sense of a gal is mostly about feeling, relationships, friendships, etc... so gals see relationship as an important thing, they would be satisfied to have friendship or other relationships as well in their life..)
so, she said, It's good to keep in contact and it's just like growing up together,... yeah, I agree too..

There was a statement she mentioned, Love doesn't end with hatred
if you love someone, even you can't be with him, will you hate him?
If you do love him, you will wish him all the best! You will wish him able to find his ideal partner but not curse him!

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wah @@ u jot down all the stuffs of the screen??

February 07, 2006 3:43 pm  
Blogger hedwig elaine said...

no lar.. I paid much attention to what she said, and since I sat at the first row where I could listen clearly..

February 08, 2006 1:23 am  
Blogger okaywhy said...

Wah.... your memory is horrifying!

February 12, 2006 7:32 am  

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